The Six Passions of the Red-Hot Lover

By Wendy Brown, Clinical Member, Ontario Society of Psychotherapists

Questionable Dating Advice

By Wendy Brown March 2, 2015 Advice No Comments

I am a psychotherapist who has a lot of experience dealing with love relationships. Over the years, I’ve seen people upset because they’ve accepted dating advice from their family and friends that hasn’t served them very well. Having love-life difficulties and feeling at least a little desperate for a solution, they were perhaps too eager to have advice; any advice. Then, things went wrong. Sometimes the dating advice caused them to solve one problem and create another, or it worked fairly well but had a hidden downside that showed up later. That is why I’ve decided to write a series of blog posts to point out: The thinking that goes along with the dating advice What tends to be the fallout of implementing the advice By the way, I think it’s generalizing too much to say some dating advice is good and some is bad. Every person is different and…

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